Showing posts with label emotional wellbeing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotional wellbeing. Show all posts

Tuesday, 18 October 2022

Why Menopause Matters.

Until recently Menopause has been one of those taboo subjects that we simply do not talk about. Something that is hushed up or brushed under the carpet. Culturally we don’t have a history of discussing menopause openly but that is changing. Menopause s now included in school curriculums and in October 2021 a a bill was introduced in the House of Commons to make workplaces menopause friendly places (Menopause Support and Services Bill). As with any change it can take time to be fully embedded and accepted in our culture, and for some talking about this stage of life can feel unnatural or uncomfortable. 

Definition

Put simply menopause is a stage of life experienced by women, trans and non binary people. It’s directly connected to hormone levels and the effect of these hormone levels on a person’s menstrual cycle. 


Stages 

Menopause is the stage where periods have stopped completely. There are several stages prior to this that many people call menopause, but are separate stages in their own right, with their own definitions, symptoms and effects.


Pre-Menopause is the stage in life where oestrogen levels are at a normal level and menstruation occurs regularly. For most people this stage of life occurs naturally between the ages of 13-45, regular menstruation can begin earlier than this and continue for longer. 


Peri-menopause begins when hormone levels begin to fluctuate and periods start to become irregular. This occurs for many people in their mid to late forties but can occur much earlier, or begin later in life for some. 


Officially menopause begins at the time of the final menstrual bleed, with a person classed as fully menopausal when periods have ceased for a full year over the age of fifty and for two full years before the age of fifty. Post-menopause is the period of time after the cessation of menstruation. Menopause commonly occurs for most people between the ages of 45-55 but at least one in a hundred people experience menopause before the age of 40, 1 in 20 women will experience menopause between the ages of 41-45. Trans men, people who are non binary, people who have surgical interventions such as a hysterectomy, and those undergoing hormonal treatments, can also experience an early menopause. 


Symptoms

Approximately 80% of women, trans and non binary people experiencing peri-menopause notice the effect of decreasing hormones in their lives and 20% experience severe symptoms* Many people associate hot flushes, night sweats, weight gain and low mood with menopause but there are up to 66 known symptoms commonly associated with peri-menopause and menopause. Lesser known symptoms include dry eyes, problems with driving, joint pain and itchy skin. A combination of several symptoms can have a detrimental effect on someone’s physical, psychological and emotional health and wellbeing. Raising awareness of the symptoms associated with menopause can help people to understand and recognise them and to understand the effects on their life. 



The Stats!

Women aged 50+ are the fastest growing segment of the UK workforce, equating to approximately  1 in 6 working women in 2022, representing almost half of the workforce. Worryingly 30% of women consider leaving work because of their menopause symptoms, 1 in 10 women leave work and 1 in 5 will not apply for promotion* 

 

Support

With many more people working and experiencing menopause there is a greater demand on our health services for support. The British Medical association published a report in 2020, Challenging the culture on menopause for working doctors which found that many General Practitioners do not have the resources or support they need to support people through menopause. This is due to the fact that there is a lack of education and training for UK doctors with 41% of University courses for GPs offering no mandatory training about menopause*, where training is included it is not deemed to be comprehensive. Currently in the UK there are only 143 menopause specialists. Carolyn Harris, MP for Swansea East is campaigning for all GPs to receive comprehensive training about the menopause, helping to ensure people seeking support have their needs met effectively. 



Raising Awareness. 

Whilst we might look to the medical profession for support there are steps we can all take to support people through menopause. It’s important to acknowledge that menopause is a different experience for each person. Recognising the impact of menopause on someone’s life and the fact that menopause has an impact on all of us, not just the person going through this stage of life, is helpful. Understanding why people we work with might not seem to be their usual self, being aware of additional pressures that can exacerbate symptoms such as workplace stress, caring for older relatives and teenage dependents. The world can feel like a less manageable, overwhelming place for those without support, having a negative impact on confidence and self esteem.

Things we can actively do to support people are:


  • Be able to offer support. Signpost people to as much help, information and support as possible and encourage positive conversations with GPs, going in with an informed opinion from a position of strength. 

  • Find out where your nearest Menopause Cafe is and go along.

  • Ask your HR / Internal Services manager for your workplace Menopause policy. What support is in place to make your organisation menopause friendly?

  • Talk openly about menopause, help to raise awareness and debunk myth and stigma.

  • Find out more about menopause, there is lots of useful information available about nutrition, exercise and support networks that can be beneficial. Please also be aware of commercial enterprises branded as support and get advice from accredited and professionally recognised sources. A list of recommended resources can be found below. 





Useful Resources.



Thanks to Jayne Woodman and The Menopause Team for their comprehensive training, 'Menopause Awareness," and "Menopause Awareness for Men Supporting Women," Stats included are thanks to the training and useful resources provided.

Images thanks to Pixabay.

Wednesday, 13 July 2022

A Balanced Approach to Living Well in Powys.

Phoenix Mindful Living
learning to live with ease.

We were really excited to meet up with Nikki Thomas-Roberts who told us all about the amazing Balance Programme, currently being offered to unpaid carers and volunteers in Powys. The next programme starts on the 5th August, Nikki tells us all about the benefits and what's involved below.

 Where did the idea for the Balance Programme come from? 

Powys Care Academy and Powys Council commissioned Phoenix Mindful Living, a company run by Nikki Thomas-Roberts to undertake a scope to find out what we could do to enhance support to Carers and Volunteers living in Powys. The Balance Programme was designed to meet the needs of Carers and Volunteers based on engagement work and feedback undertaken by PAVO, CREDU and Powys Council. The programme has been trialled over the past six months and many participants have taken part. What has worked really well has been the 8 week Mindfulness Based Living Course,  one day Balance Retreat and one to one sessions to support participants with space, time, skills, resources and connection to other Carers and Volunteers in safe and friendly environments.

Nikki Thomas - Roberts

Who is delivering the sessions and what is their background? 

Nikki runs Phoenix Mindful Living. She is a Registered General Nurse, works as a Wellbeing Development Practitioner, has worked for 39 years in cancer care, Leadership and Organisational Development since starting her career in cancer care at the age of 16. Nikki was also a young carer and has a caring role for her two sons. Like her three children, Nikki is herself Dyslexic and has relentlessly looked for ways to support her emotional wellbeing and fellow NHS staff, nurses and Doctors over the past twenty years. Understanding how Compassion based mindfulness can impact and support individuals including herself, drives Nikki to teach these techniques both in the UK and the USA.

What does a typical 8 week programme involve?

The Mindfulness Based Living Course (MBLC) is generally run on MS Teams, the sessions are 2 hours long and run on a Wednesday afternoon 2.30-4.30pm or Friday mornings, 9.30-11.30 am
We can always negotiate other times, such as evenings or weekends if this works better. The course starts off with very gentle compassion based mindfulness techniques and practices, to help the participant really ‘feel’ how to be mindful. So that when it comes to weaving these skills into everyday life, they have already experienced it. Compassion practices are really important because often Carers and Volunteers give so much of themselves in their caring roles, often they can feel overwhelmed and sometimes lose the essence of themselves. Self-compassion supports individuals to not feel so isolated, to know that as a race we are connected to others and to understand why it’s important to keep ourselves in the loop of compassion as best we can. The Powys Programme creates very small groups who empathise and connect with each other in terms of the difficulties we are all facing sometimes, this in its own right, can be really helpful to participants.

Who is the programme for and who can access the service?

Initially the Balance Programme was designed with Powys Carers and Volunteers in mind. After the success of the first pilot, we have also rolled the programme out to Health Care workers too.

Balance Mindfulness Session. 

What are the benefits of attending? 

Participants will experience how to meditate, develop skills to manage their emotions and to regulate emotions more skilfully. Learning how to weave these new skills into everyday life, so that mindfulness is not something else to do, but being more present and generally being  mindful helps participants live with more ease.  Even on a short course or a one day retreat, Carers and Volunteers have left knowing more about how their mind works; what effect this has on their bodies; actions and emotions and how to soothe themselves even in moments of real difficulty. Participants have fed back to us how they feel they’ve learned to be more present and how to experience moments of contentment, ease, joy and positive emotions too.
Being aware of these positive emotions helps us balance some of the difficulties we experience in life.

In what ways has the programme supported unpaid carers?

Balance has done just that, helped Carers and Volunteers Balance their needs with the needs of others. This is still work in progress and it is our intention to grow the programme organically, which means we’re directed by what works for Carers and Volunteers. For example, we have developed a way of meeting participants where they are. Despite running retreats and sessions online, we know that there is a much greater need and to meet this challenge, so we have designed ‘ Mobile Mindfulness in The Good Karma Camper,’ which means we can come out to small communities and villages, organisations and youth groups and run short mindfulness sessions where Carers and Volunteers live, all over Powys. Our Retreats have provided a lovely space too, time to chat in a safe environment, encouraged walking meditation and a connecting over lunch. Learning skills and tools together in a fun and friendly way to support emotional health issues. The Balance Programme is not Therapy, however the practices and programme can have a therapeutic effect. Mindfulness can be used to manage many emotional health issues including Anxiety and Depression.

Supporting Emotional Health

Is there a respite support service in place to support carers to attend?

Yes there is. This is vital if we are to reach Carers and Volunteers. We can link up with Powys Council for support in supporting the cared for.  

Do you have a case study you can share with us?

Cecilia recently completed one of the 8 week programmes and really felt the benefits, here is what she had to say about her experience.


Where is the programme held? 

Over MS Teams and in person. So far we have held several sessions and  two 8 week MBLC’s on line and two Retreats at Bronllys Hospital at the Basil Webb Centre. One to one sessions can be done on line or over the phone. We are looking to set up Retreats further afield across Powys county as and when needed, to accommodate Carer and Volunteers individual needs.

Bronllys - Basil Webb Centre

When does the next programme begin and how can people book a place?

The latest online course (delivered over Microsoft Teams) begins on Wednesday 26 April, 9.30-11.30am, with further sessions, at the same time, on 3, 10, 17, 24 and 31 May, and on 7 and 14 June.

To find out more and to book your place, please contact Nikki Thomas-Roberts, of Phoenix Mindful Living, on: phoenixmindfulliving(at)gmail.com 

If you don’t have the time to attend an eight-week course, staff and volunteers working in the health and social care sector can also attend a one-off, three-hour, free Harmony and Balance Session (for up to eight participants) over Microsoft Teams. The next available dates for these are Wednesday 31 May, 1.30-4.30pm, and Wednesday 26 July, 9.30am-12.30pm.

Where can people find out more about the programme? 

Please contact phoenixmindfulliving@gmail.com or contact Nikki on 07803472316 between 6-8pm on week evenings and anytime on Saturdays.